When you can realize the other persons desires, needs, situation… with conviction, empathy, wanton and love.
These are the makings of temperance, compassion, virtue and resilience.
It is easy for a person to believe and want God to send the right one. Yet asking yourself if “YOU” yourself, are the right one for that other person. Is almost always missed by us and rarely considered.
However, it is all considered by God and God will give you every challenge and even trials to test and see if “YOU” are truly worthy, deserving and ready to be what the other person needs in their life as well.
This all fails though and the blessings shelved, when we want to be in control and do the driving in our lives and take the control away from God.
We all have free will, given by God to make choices.
Again, God will let us drive and simply give control to us, when we choose to take it away from him.
His will, will still be done though, so you will also be allowed to fail, repeat his test, deal with adversity and disappointment again and again.
Until you come to the end of yourself and accept God’s will in your life. Which is NOT based on your own wants, preferences and ambivalent reasoning.
He has more time than you and you will simply run out of days, heart beats and life first. By turning away from what he has put before you, that will better you, grow you and lead you, to be the right one.
