You are talking to her… yet she is on her phone, going through other male’s text.
You try to spend time with her, yet she is on her phone…
She nods off, or just all out falls asleep when she is with you… She is a boring person and is bored with YOU, because her limitations and past choices, tell her that you are a boring person!
She pulls away when you try to kiss her or get close… her body language is trash and avoidant… she yawns when you talk to her…
Hmmm, lol…. Wha – what on earth are you waiting for? It’s so obvious this female doesn’t want to be with you and is not interested. Why are YOU wasting your time again?!!
Bro! Move The Fuck On! Get out there and find a female worth it. This one is not, and she most likely already know that too.
Yet… these females, these types of females will string you along. They are needy in some way… probably something you are helping them with. Allowing them to crash on your couch to avoid sleeping under a bridge. They need money… they need something! They see you as someone they can take advantage of and will…
If the female you are involved with does these things, don’t just stand by and get treated like dirt, LEAVE HER ALONE!
People play games all the time and have different motivations. Unfortunately, other people get caught up in an elaborate web of love that only ends in heartbreak. Some women tend to go overboard with their playful gimmicks and end up hurting a lot of people. Listen, whatever your situation may be, if your girl plays these games, WALK! She’s definitely not worth your love.
1. There are unexplained times that she is unavailable
Are there moments when your woman drops off the radar and becomes totally unreachable. I’m not referencing those random times when she may be out and about, with her battery dying or dead.
The woman I am describing has a habit of regularly disappearing without notice. The key word here is HABIT. Don’t tell me you believe all the coincidences where she so happens to only have a dead battery on Saturdays at 9pm.
If you are involved with such a woman, and she cannot give you a plausible fuckin reason, then you should know that there is some other guy who is a priority. She would rather spend her time with Mr. Anonymous than with you.
There is a reason why she won’t even bother telling you anything before her disappearing act. If you’re daring enough to probe further, you may not like what you hear.
A woman like that definitely does not deserve your time. Save yourself some trouble, dump her and move on.
2. She has saved your phone number with an alias
Listen, if this alias isn’t a name you’re familiar with, there could be ulterior motives. The least she could do is inform you of what she’s stored your name as.
You see, sometimes women who have something to hide or at worst, another male in their lives, may never be able to save your real name. Perhaps your name has even come up in conversations with the other guy and he’s told her not to call or interact with you.
Be guided and observant. The next time you’re with her, catch her by surprise, and call her phone. Please don’t be heartbroken if and when you find out she’s stored your name as ‘Carpenter’, or even ‘Plumber’.
Just know it may be time to throw that shit out and get out there to legs and hearts that ARE open to you. Because there is and they are! There is nothing happening with this dead-end street you are traveling with this female playing you; she’s not into you, so invest nothing more into her.
3. You only see her when she wants you to
Have you and your woman started playing hide and seek, except that you were unaware that you were in such a game from the start?
This is one of the biggest red flags. She is only available when she wants something from you. If you attempt to set up a date, or try to see her, it will never happen. She will mainly give you one excuse after the next.
She wants everything to be on her schedule, and if you show up when she doesn’t expect you to, you might not like what you see.
If the woman you are involved with is never willing to sacrifice to make time for you and your relationship, dump her. For all you know… she’s getting her back blown by some other male anyway, or she’d give you more than bullshit games, childish hints and no integrity breadcrumbs.
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