I have had a lot of interesting experiences on dating sites. Anything from whores trying to sell ass and get gift cards… To wayward females, masculine females and plain out hags.
Hags that belong to the streets and are only chasing attention from simps and beta males. And seeking all kinds of false validation. Who completely bugged out when I ignored them and never respond.
Without giving up too much about myself, I am partially disabled in my left leg from an auto accident years ago… and I don’t let that stop me from hooking up and even dating.
If she proves to be fun and not a crazy nut job in some way. I don’t appear to have a disability on general appearance, because I am healthy and fully function.
I don’t need any special equipment like oxygen or machines. But I do need a cane, even a walker when traveling about at length. Depending on the situation and who I am traveling out and about with that day.
But even that can be problematic because when I get stiff in my leg, most people can’t (or don’t choose to) understand since they can’t see what’s wrong.
But anyway, enough about me! I am good! I still do everything an uninjured person does and I still fuck better than most dudes with “3 legs”, lol!! my advice is to put yourself out there and be confident, but you don’t have to be cocky or an ass to be confident.
In my experience, women like confident, funny and intelligent MEN, but not a know it all boy. Who is most likely needy, clingy, demanding and controlling. Basically a typical beta male, controlled by his emotions.
Be up front and honest about what you want, your intentions to get it and what you are looking for and expect.
If you want a woman to do outdoorsy things with then make sure they know that’s what you want. If you want a companion and a buddy to share life with then incorporate that into your “wants” description.
Also put in all the things you are good at, that show you are confident and sure of yourself.
Women love pets, at least my experience is that women really like the pics of me with my dog. I don’t own a dog, but I have used a pic of me and one of my ex gf’s dog. To good success too, lol!
Pets also spark conversation… remember that! Don’t post pics of all your stuff; Motorcycles, cars, trucks etc. None of that is showing most women anything special about you.
They will see tons of other males posting the same shit and nothing new, or unique to YOU, the individual.
Except that you are possibly possessive, shallow, over compensating, or materialistic to name a few. I have had really good money and assets in my previous life and never said a word about them until it was appropriate.
And until I could vet a female thoroughly to make sure she wasn’t full of shit, deceptive, a liar, or just a gold digger.
If a woman is interested in you and likes material, she’ll want to involve with you for a couple of reasons. It is a free pass to get close without feeling guilty about you blowing your money on her, with no promise of ass.
See feels like you have the opportunity to get grabby and she will automatically know that is a given and tolerate it as long as cash is dropping.
So if she is low value and of low worth, she will need your money to cover her shit, and will put a price on her box. Or, sometimes, but not often… she has her own tingle in her twat and she just wants some dick and might just want to get laid herself.
It is her opportunity to be able to tease you, because she can be touchy feely and rub all over you. Knowing you have material and she is a gold digger, will okay her actions and justify it all to herself.
Most important, to me at least, is to be good at communicating. Nothing spells boring faster than having to keep a conversation going all the time. Lots of questions about her and not so much talking about you. She’ll ask you what she wants to know.
Be assertive without being bossy.
Be flirty without being weird or gross.
Be fun.
Don’t let women intimidate you because nothing spells doom faster than a male who won’t stick up for himself. The control freaks will hunt you down and try to sink their hooks in you so fast it will make your head spin.
Don’t be intimidated because a woman shows intelligence.
If you can’t keep up with her in the smarts department, DON’T fake it. She will see through that faster than you can see through a window and she will be out faster than you can imagine.
Ask questions and let her explain what she means, as long as she doesn’t have to dumb it down too much she will appreciate your honesty.
Right now I am dating a woman who has a degree in chemical engineering. Her intelligence is sexy as hell to me and if I don’t understand something she says, I simply tell her I don’t understand.
Also don’t be intimidated if your income doesn’t equal hers.
Unless she thinks she has to support you, a good woman won’t be that superficial or shallow. The woman I’m dating probably brings in more in a week than I do all month and my monthly disability cash is more than most peoples, because of my years in practice and the income I earned over 26 years.
Why does she still date me and want me around?
Probably because of how mind numbingly amazing I am at eating pussy and can screw forever! Or more likely because I’m confident and I encourage her to be herself…
My nature is to always help my woman spread her wings, as much as I’m gonna spread her legs. And it also helps that I can keep up with her intellectually.
In short, focus on your strong points and your qualities when you write your profile description about yourself.
Dating is a lot of work and can bring you down in a hurry if you’re a lame ass… Keep it light hearted, don’t take it to seriously and have fun. If you feel yourself getting in a rut, step back and try to figure out why.
A decent woman of value will definitely tell you if she just wants to fuck, date, be a fwb’s, or wants nothing. Girls, will waste your time and are just passing their own time… maybe just chasing likes.
Send them a dick pic or keep talking about sex and they’ll go away. This always works to get rid of mediocre chicks’ and low rating girls you only have low interest in anyway.
It allow tem to be rejected without realizing it and feel good about blocking or ghosting you, lol! and you can keep moving!
#alphalife #savage
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