Focus, apply yourself, be mindful and then learn to get used to being uncomfortable and out of your element. This doesn’t only apply to your career pursuits or romantic wants, but to life in general. You give yourself a reason to grow—mentally, spiritually, or even physically—when you take yourself out of your comfort zone.
This is a stimulus for your core, for your spirit. It becomes your strengthened energy and once you adapt to it and progress… put yourself in a new state of discomfort. That’s how you keep moving forward.