Many females will involve with a male simply based on looks and automatically allow that to trigger the, “Let’s get to know each other” mechanism. Is that the best and most logical way to accomplish smart choices and decisions in life though?
Well, if so… how about buying a car, based on looks, “the right” price and driving off smiling with butterflies. Then later discovering the car drives like shit sooner rather than later.
Cost more than the sticker said it did in maintenance. Eats gas like a gluttonous pig and now doesn’t even look so attractive anymore, because it’s been a regrettable headache.
The tires have gone bald and wear out fast, that attractive paint is outdated now, not trending anymore and faded. And… something rattles and drags the ground underneath!
This is the way many females choose a mate however. They work in complete reverse of logic. In the order of common sense and smart reasoning, they should be test driving the hell out of a vehicle, many vehicles if need be, before they/you buy.
Or waste their time and energy getting to know. At this point, many females (many offended by the previous statement) would say; “Well, shouldn’t you get to know someone 1st though, before you buy or even, (test drive)?” Perhaps even most females do reason it out this way and therein lies the issue…
This is why we have a planet of broken families, domestic violence arraignments, divorce courts, family courts, baby mommas / daddies’, child support court, garnishments, a fucked up tax system.
Females having to sell ass, boys having to sell drugs and steal. Juvenile delinquents, females moving in with dudes and then it not working out, now their credit is blown and they have nothing.
End up nomadic and often couch hoppers… You get my point.
Females don’t understand, don’t study, don’t bother to even learn… the psychology of male nature and wiring. They assume it and for the most part… assume it wrong and poorly, over and over again. Male after male, after male… to insanity!
For us males though it is simple and a numbers game… There are way more women than there are of us males, we live in abundance and most males learn to handle rejection early on in life.
Rejection from other boys, young girls at an elementary school level, coaches, sports teams, jobs, other competing males, so on and so on. Most of our adolescent lives…
So when we are older and a woman blocks us, rejects us, is fickle and weird… it basically is an unnoticed nothing event. ALL males know that the best way to get rid of a female you only have low interest in, is to simply talk about sex.
Send dick pics, or act as if that is all you want from her. She will do the rest and eliminate the contact, thus a bullet dodged and we move to the next. Chances are that she already has a handful of other males that are blowing her up in hot pursuit of that ass also.
Of course for the females who do not understand the birds and the bee’s, God’s design for the human sexes… or intelligent reasoning. Being pursued can be offensive and irritating to them, even though many chase attention like starving roaches.
Mostly just ending up with false validation from thirsty beta males hoping to get to know her. And if all goes well… then she’ll let them get in her ass once and then these simps become stalkers, thinking she wants love and a relationship.
She really doesn’t want that and see’s those simps as pathetic and desperate, yet and still… her logic also controls her and compels her to get to know the dude that puts on the act, plays the nice guy and pretends… sex is not his only intention.
Again… that leaves her single, bitter, used, when he moves on. We Men learn early on in life, from our moms, ex girlfriends, sluts, strippers, whores and good and / or bad women in general…
If a woman wants us for the long haul… she will meet us as equals. Not her thinking she’s a treasure, gift or queen. And she too will test drive that male, just as we will her and if the chemistry, compatibility, lingering desire, imprinting and connection is right.
We both will end up connecting with substance, especially after a few test drives together lol… She / he may be worth getting to know, spending significant time with and even domesticating with.
All built in raw honesty upfront, true attraction from the 1st pics or looks and then getting to really know them. Not in reverse of the right way. At some point, it is hard for the 2 who have done the process correctly, to even feel whole being apart from each other. This is when relationships endure for a lifetime.
Remember women… never get with a male, that lies and says he wants to “get to know you”, if he is not insanely attracted to your pics/ looks alone, tells you how much he wants sex from you.
Remember women… never get with a male, that lies and says he wants to “get to know you”, if he is not insanely attracted to your pics/ looks alone, tells you how much he wants sex from you.Says what he wants to do with you and you make him become pathetic with desires for you. That he honestly and openly put’s himself out there to let you know about what he see and feels.
ALL up front and before he gets to know you. Know your ways, moods, dark side and other insidiousness… If a male is not doing all of that!
BEFORE he gets to know you. He will cheat, become uninterested, unmotivated, blameful, and detached, once the newness has faded. He has gotten to know you now and there was no, upfront test drive action going on… and decides he doesn’t want to know you anymore.
At some point though, he ends up seeing someone… another female that he DOES, go insane over her looks, ass and stuff! Openly tells her this upfront… honestly makes his intentions know to her and she is smart!
She doesn’t block him or get offended… She realizes she is attractive, human and a FEMALE; she will be desired by visually wired males! She appreciates his honesty, his confidence, his raw raunchiness and she just happens to be attracted also and want the same.
The story is over for the woman at home… who did it all in reverse and by, “getting to know” before experiencing. Ladies… Get with a leader, a Christian Man who will honestly tell you upfront, his sinner thoughts (cause you know… we all are).
And someone who does not give a shit about moving on to another woman, if y’all are not sexually compatible and in synch. But a man who wants to eat you every moment of the day for life!!
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