An alpha male is a man who is highly intelligent, confident, and successful.
Alpha males are generally considered great leaders and prefer to be in positions of power.
Common traits alpha males possess include: Being in a position of power. Being comfortable with high levels of responsibility.
An alpha male is not an emotionally distraught, abusive, foul mouth, quick tempered, narcisistic and misogynistic bully. On the contrary, that is a beta male!
A beta male, unlike an alpha is NOT good or reliable under pressure. They are quick to blame others, feel disrespected, betrayed, even heart broken.
And often will punch holes in walls, break things or become violent. Whereas the alpha male will maintain a strong, masculine frame.
Keep a calm composure and plan resolutions to issues. That benefit all involved… bringing compassion, empathy and action to a tense situation, often reassuring others around himself.
As they see stability, continuity, consistency and decisiveness in him. The beta male however, has to be right, even when wrong, admonishing, blameful.
And derogatory to those he feels threatened, or lessened by. An alpha male is typically described as the dominant and most influential member of a social group.
Alpha males have a high emotional intelligence quotient. This is what makes them get along with people. The alpha male personality knows how to manage their emotions; this is why they don’t have outbursts.
He is strong, confident, assertive, and in control of his environment. He has the ability to lead, motivate and inspire those around him while maintaining a sense of power over his peers.
Alpha males are strong, determined, and clear about their goals.
With their innate charm, they face little difficulty attracting women. Unlike beta men, alpha men have a magnanimous personality, are highly confident, and make the right decisions.
What personality is the opposite of alpha?
The omega male is the opposite of the alpha male – they’re not very dominant or assertive.
They normally don’t have that many friends but are very intelligent and have lots of other hobbies and interests.
This personality type will do whatever they want and doesn’t care about getting validation from others.
What type of woman is an alpha male attracted to?
Alpha males are often attracted to strong, confident, and independent women. These women know what they want and aren’t afraid to go after it.
These women are usually self-sufficient and don’t need a man to care for them.
However theses women may definitely be alpha’s themselves and make it a fundamental point.
To remain super feminine and hold to being available and a good measure of submissive for him.
They know doing this builds harmony and longevity and they realize they are with an alpha male.
She feeds off of his lead and she is never masculine, but remains the strong, fierce woman he craves and adores!
They also have a strong sense of self-worth, making them attractive to alpha males.
An alpha male isn’t looking for validation from others. An alpha male lives for himself so that when he ends up in a relationship, he doesn’t fall into strong feelings of neediness and dependency.
Whereas a beta male may see his partner as property, a caretaker, the responsible one, a servant, a person to blame or abuse.
Often letting jealousy make the beta male suspicious of her and untrusting, all based on his own insecurities.
Commonly accusing her of cheating out of his own fears of inadequacy.
Alpha Males In Relationships
Alpha males are the leaders in their relationships. We aren’t controlling, but we’re are very open about what we want, and we don’t wait for a potential mate to approach us.
When we are set to be with her with the uncanny drive and pursuit of a lion on the hunt.
(Note that this doesn’t mean our partner can’t be in control of her own life. We often like when she is, while still staying feminine in her ways.)
If you glow with confidence and determination, he’ll look for a long-lasting romance with you.
We’ll share some tips on how to capture our heart so your favorite alpha male won’t just chase you—he’ll actually fall madly in love.
When we flirt, we alpha males ooze confidence, and we don’t shy away from being genuine.
Obviously we don’t say anything that could actually offend her, but make her laugh by calling her out on silly things.
A fun way to start a lighthearted back-and-forth with a woman you’ve just met is to act like you’ve known her forever.
Like all males, alpha males can be faithful, but it all depends on the woman’s part. A woman who is with an alpha male has to enjoy being his woman.
She has to accept him as the dominant male, stay loyal, and show more of her feminine side. Making him feel like the dominant male will earn our loyalty and love forever.
One thing that makes alpha males fall in love is their sense of purpose. If you live a life headed in a good direction, you will attract alpha males.
In addition, if you know how to keep your physical appearance up by looking good, staying feminine in appearance and personality… more alpha males will come your way.
What is an alpha male like in bed?
An alpha male is adventurous in bed — he’s not content with vanilla missionary sex. Also, we will talk dirty, explore your body, and whispers dirty things in his woman’s ear.
And he also takes great pleasure in arousing his partner to wild heights.
In Their Careers
Bold, self-confident, and demanding, alpha males get things done. But the traits that make them so productive can also drive their coworkers crazy.
Highly intelligent, confident, and successful, alpha males represent about 70% of all senior executives.
Perfectionism hurts both him and others
Alpha men are perfectionists, so they push themselves to be the best in everything. If we can’t, we force ourselves to work harder even if our body doesn’t agree.
They treat others the same way if we truly feel they are capable and will not hurt themselves. And will keep pushing them to agree with our demands, because we believe they can accomplish the objective.
Or, we simply want to see how strong and determined that person can truly be. So we will know their strengths, talent, ability and resolve for the future.
The entire alpha concept is from a poorly done study of wolves in captivity that the author even stated was flawed.
Subsequent studies in apes and other social creatures found those considered “dominant”.
Were there largely because of their overall positive impacts on the group through largely empathetic means, such as conflict mediation and caring for the young.
The common ideal of an “alpha male” being an abrasive nuisance is something perpetuated by ignorance and embraced by those that could never be alphas in social groups.
In Conclusion
This article was not really about the causes at all. It is not my personal story. It is simply a clarification of what us alpha mare are and are not.
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