Author name: BOOKER

What Do I Mean By “Nice”? I don’t think there is anything wrong with a man being polite, cordial, hospitable, friendly, agreeable, and so on. So, in that sense, it’s fine to be “nice.” I’m certainly not saying men should be rude or disrespectful. But rather than using the word “nice” to describe the care, […]

The shit boggles my mind… If a female wants a male that is older, it’s a preference… If a male wants a girl that is younger, it’s creepy and immature… If a girl doesn’t want to be with a short guy, it’s a preference… If a guy doesn’t want to be with a girl who’s

No woman has ever woke up in the morning, started her day and said to herself; “let me go out and find the most feminine male I can find today.”   The same way no man will ever, ever say; “Let me get the most masculine female I can find today!”   Despite what our

Never involve with a female entertaining multiple males… She is letting all of these males into her consideration and thus comparing them.     Allowing one or more to spend money and time on her, believing they will progress. While one of them is smashing her; probably doing less, not spending time or money and

  Success comes at a high price, this much you should be aware of by now. So listen up, because what I’m about to say might go against everything you believe: People who only care about getting rich and famous and don’t care about anything else will end up alone and unhappy. There are many

“If I’m unattractive, does this mean God has called me to singleness?”   This is a question that I have repeatedly been asked. So here’s my simple answer: No, being unattractive is not a sign you are called to singleness. Here are 4 reasons I don’t believe being unattractive is a sign God is calling

Ways to Be Remarkable!   The first thing you have to decide is what that means for you specifically. Living extraordinarily means something different to everyone. It’s a personal vision for you to imagine – and it takes consistent action to achieve. What adds excitement and gives purpose to your life? For some, living extraordinarily could

YOU only get one life, one lifetime, one shot at growth, love, wisdom and a chance to grow old one day. Many people unfortunately, will never get to make it to old age. Or grow old due to a life of poor choices and impulsive decisions, based on preferences and ignorance of experience and exposure…

  How do you want it?How does you feel?Comin’ up as a nigga in the cash gameLivin’ in the fast lane, now for real? How do you want it? (yeah)How do you feel?Comin’ up as a nigga in the cash gameLivin’ in the fast lane, I’m for real? Love the way you activate your hips

I can only assume that for a female It’s not always easy to realize that you are in a relationship with a controlling man. After all, you are so in love and infatuated with your man that you don’t realize you’re in an abusive relationship with a sorry assed beta male… nor do you see the early

Narcissist females often have ex-partners, baby daddy’s, sides, fuck buddies that they keep ensnared, may instigate love triangles to feel validation.. and are prone to cheating both emotionally and physically. In relationships manipulation of a partner is emotional abuse, and whether females, or males. Narcissists resort to some pretty low and shitty assed behaviors if

  Remember back when you were a kid? You would just do things. You never thought to yourself, “What are the relative merits of learning baseball versus football?” You just ran around the playground and played baseball and football. You built sand castles and played tag and asked silly questions and looked for bugs and

Are you feeling unfulfilled, like something is just missing? There are all kinds of reasons people feel empty and unfulfilled in life, and it can range from mild dissatisfaction to a full-blown existential crisis. Regardless of the reason, if you find yourself wanting more out of life, then you know it’s time to start a

Some of the most important leadership characteristics, found in people who do a great job of leading others and getting things done. Include patience, humility, fortitude, fairness, a sense of vision, and being a good listener. People with strong leadership attributes use a specific set of skills. It looks like charisma, but it’s not.  

In my life, I have given a fuck about many people and many things.   I have also not given a fuck about many people and many things. And those fucks I have not given have made all the difference.   People often say the key to confidence and success in life is to simply “not

Having gone out with with literally dozens of women and gone to bed with hundreds of females over the past three decades, I’ve learned that there’s nothing you can do to GUARANTEE having sex with any particular woman.   However… by doing a few simple things, you can dramatically INCREASE THE ODDS of going all

If a female doesn’t and / or is not willing to chase you and let you know that they are interested in you, keep moving. There are women out there that are not fickle, not wish washy and waffling in confusion, who are ready to comitt to one man. Then there are girls out here

It took me about 3 weeks to research and compile information for this blog… I wanted to know the answer to this and know the right way to know if she is the one, instead of just always taking these deceptive, wayward females at face value… I have often said that many females these days

It’s no secret that screwing’ to a nice sexy-time playlist equals a totally elevated experience between the sheets.   So, if you’re having a hard time getting in the mood for sex, you may want to try some sweet, sultry tunes to get you feeling all hot, bothered and ready to fuck.   Whether it’s a slow,

You are talking to her… yet she is on her phone, going through other male’s text. You try to spend time with her, yet she is on her phone… She nods off, or just all out falls asleep when she is with you… She is a boring person and is bored with YOU, because her

Do you feel shitty, bad, pissed off when a narcissist ignores your messages and / or calls? If yes, after reading this article, you won’t feel the same way again. I promise! Most of the time, we don’t feel bad because we love the person who ignored us so much, but we feel bad because

SHE SHOULD BE; A good woman. One who looks amazing in her clothes; and will represent us in a fabulous light! She looks incredible in sundresses, strappy shoes and sandals, eye browse are crazy sculpted, nails painted, friendly, fun and feminine! She’ll be strong in spirit, fiercely bold and warm, loving, casual. I AM; 6′

What Does SIMP Stand For? What SIMP Means and What It Represents… Here I will unpack the facts about SIMPing, SIMP Nation and SIMP-Power. Prior to the 2020s, misogyny was largely insults, or cultural norms at the expense of women. But trust the Gen-Zers to even the playing field, and now not even men are

There is no such thing as a perfect match. Every relationship has a fair amount of compromise. However, that compromise shouldn’t be at the expense of your self-confidence, values or lifestyle. So, I’ve compiled a list of signs that the one you’re dating isn’t your “soulmate” and possibly not, THE ONE…     1 You Keep

Imagine you are now 70 years old, living in a house by the sea, and enjoying your retirement. You are staring at the sea, thinking about the life lessons you have picked on along the way. You know things could have been better, if only you learned these lessons earlier in your life.    

I’m not a bad ass, not a tuff guy, not gung-ho… I am blindingly smart, stunningly fast on my feet and astoundingly highly intelligent however! I give measured respect to others and am a kind, light hearted, personable person . I do not have issues, drama or troubled situations with other fellow humans, because I

When a female ask you for time and to go slow, she has purpose behind that. It’s either going to be roast beef… or a tv dinner! Be mindful…         Many males out here are simply weak and pathetic when it comes to mentally strong women, regardless if they are perfectly composed

Low value men are parasitic in nature. They are a liability to everyone, including themselves. Meaning they take more than they give or are able to produce.   Now, just a reminder here – when you use the word “value” you’re using it in the sense of the valuable skills and attributes a person brings