If you have known me for more than 9 years from the time I am writing this blog, you know I have been there and done it. A few times!
So If you want to build a life you’re proud of, this is your best opportunity. The powerful secrets I’ll share in this article will not only get you wealthy sooner, but also improve your overall quality of life.
Don’t help anyone, help yourself!
This is counterintuitive to what everyone else is preaching, but everyone who built anything was selfish in their first few years.
This early, you don’t have enough resources to share so you have to use every single drop to further yourself. You haven’t learned how to swim yet, so don’t go out there trying to save people from drowning left and right.
Don’t help anyone. Get your hands on enough fuel to jumpstart your life and you’ll figure everything out later.
Once you arrive, show them how you got there. But until you find some breathing room it’s everyone for themselves!
Don’t tell anyone, work when no one is looking
They don’t have to fuckin know. Their opinion is irrelevant.
Unless they’ve successfully done exactly what you plan on doing, they don’t need to know because there’s no advice they can give that has true value for you.
This is your journey, your vision, your dream.
You wouldn’t have a desire or a dream unless it was within your power to make it real!
So don’t dilute the dream, keep it for yourself and to yourself.
If you want to get wealthy sooner, you need to understand why this is such a powerful secret.
Because sharing it with others might trick your brain into behaving like the work has been already done. Moreover, you will lose the hunger to actually go after it.
This is why you know people who’ve been telling you for the past 5 years about the business they will start next week.
You’ve learned enough, now do!
Let’s get this straight: unless we’re talking about practical step-by-step tutorials, everything else is entertainment.
This article you’re reading right now only has value only if, after you’re finished reading, something gets done.
If you’re one of those people who keep going through these kinds of value-packed articles without putting anything into practice, at least be true to yourself.
You’re disguising entertainment as education.
At the state you’re at right now, you’ll actually learn more by doing than by consuming, so shift the ratio. This is how this powerful secret will get you wealthy sooner!
Instead of 80 or 90% consumption and only 10% doing, spend 90% of your time toying with the practicalities of your business or craft.
You’re smart enough to know that the growth you’re looking for is hidden in consistency.
You don’t get what you deserve, you get what you conquer
Life is never going to be fair, especially to people like us, who don’t start as high up on the mountain as others. But the peak is something you have to conquer on your own.
Success waits on the other side of you conquering the situation you start with!
One of the most powerful lessons we’ve learned comes from the only billionaire comedian: Seinfeld, who put it beautifully when he said:
Your blessings in life will come to you once you find the torture you’re comfortable with!
Think about it for as long as you need to find your torture, once you do find it and accept it as the torture you will put up with for the rest of your life. Because you know that if you keep at it it will take you to the promised land.
Make yourself wealthy first, then figure out everything else
Everyone wants to be everything all at once all the time. – yeah… I just referenced the movie, so!
They wanna get in shape, travel the world, have a hot partner, read books, write a book, write a movie, spend time with friends, build a business, and do charity work. You know the rest, you’re probably thinking about it right now.
The reason why you should follow the money first is: Getting rich first allows you to do the rest of them in peace!
It’s hard to give it your all on anything else if you don’t know how you’re gonna pay rent.
And while finding peace is a worthwhile pursuit, the road to wealth actually comes with a roadmap that’s quite easy to follow.
It will take you less time to get rich than it will to find peace, so might as well get it over with.
Do it yourself before you ask for help
Some of you aren’t making any progress because you’re waiting for someone else to open up the door for you and in some cases even carry your ass inside.
Some of you have been postponing a couple of tasks for over 6 months now which if you really sat down and focused on, you’d be done within 15 to 20 minutes.
You will learn nothing from this.
The value in doing the work yourself is that it allows you to speak the language.
You know what to ask for; you know what worked and how you got there. Especially in your early days, you have to be the one doing everything.
Disappear for 6 months and work on only 1 thing
This might not be a secret anymore, but it’s nevertheless powerful and it gets you wealthy so much sooner. People on the internet laugh at this phrase because it more recently became popular with under-20-year-old hustlers.
If your life isn’t what it should be, what’s a 6-month commitment?
When I was building 25dollarpayments.com, my first work from home business which I eventually scaled to 7 figures, I literally locked myself in a room for 6 months (December 2009 till May 2010) before things started to kick off.
These were winter to spring months when all my acquaintances were playing games they got as presents, drinking on New Years, gambling on basketball and March Madness.
Or getting ready to blow cash they may or may not have had, on the Kentucky Derby here in town.
I did it because I didn’t come from money and I wanted to level the Fuck up!
Sure it felt lonely, but here’s what I want you to take away from this: Loneliness is a tax you have to pay to access your next state of being.
Some people are so scared of bothering, or outshining others, they sacrifice their own potential for mediocrity.
Would you be ok with living like this for the rest of your life? If not, here’s what I want you to do:
Think of yourself as dead. This has been your life so far, that life is over. Now wake up and live what’s left properly!
Launch it ugly!
The problem is people compare their first step with the last step of others and the gap is huge.
One of the lessons I’ve learned from Kentuckiana Websites which has become a staple in the industry is: If you’re not embarrassed by the first version of your product, you launched too late!
Just put the shit out and see what happens. Improve upon it as you can.
So launch it now and build it in public!
Every time you feel like quitting, picture your ass hole haters laughing at you
That should keep you motivated. This powerful image is the secret that will get you motivated enough to get wealthy sooner.
You have some people you have to prove wrong, don’t you? Good act and move as if they’re watching!
Outside of your haters, you’ll have your family and friends, who although they mean well, might actually have the opposite effect.
The thing is: The rarer you are, the rarer are the people who are able to see what you see…
It’s hard to find people like you. They used to laugh when I told them I would be multi-millionaires by 30… I wasn’t! But by age 35, I had a net worth of $570,000 so halfway to a million and still better than most in my city at age 35..
Once you do, you’re faced with the other dilemma: The greater your success the fewer the people you will be able to share your success with.
There aren’t that many people interested in what you’re doing.
There are even fewer that were able to be successful at it. Eventually, you’ll get to know everyone.
Feeling stuck is a signal that you’ve stopped growing
You heard that right!
There’s actually a split here: If you have too many things to do and don’t know which you should do first, what you’re feeling is ANXIETY.
If you don’t know what to do… What you’re feeling is sadness or being stuck.
The great news is, you can stop being sad, by figuring out what would be the first step for you to take towards your big goal.
Your life is cheap because you think investing in yourself is expensive!
Stop lying to yourself or to other people
Just because you don’t say it out loud doesn’t mean it isn’t there.
The more you avoid the truth the bigger its impact will be.
The powerful secret that will get you wealthy sooner is that; inconvenient truths are better than pleasant delusions.
You need people to call you out on your bullshit! To tell you to get your shit together.
In my experience, more often than not, that is the person that ends up being yourself! Look yourself in the mirror, and accept your fucking truth so you know.
Be careful around people who claim to be helping but are actually just putting you down.
Some People who claim to be ‘brutally honest’ are more interested in being brutal, more than in being honest! Learning to differentiate between them is a pretty valuable skill.
Don’t aim to be the best, aim to be yourself
Everyone wants to be the best, right?.. What a terrible fuckin way to live!
There’s only 1 best and everyone who isn’t the best is technically a loser if you wanna go with that binary – so statistically, you can give it your all and go after it every day only to realize you’re still a loser.
What if I told you there is actually only one way where you’re the absolute winner and nobody can compete with you, if only you chose to play a different game?
Instead of competing at their game, go all in on yourself. Get good at the YOU game.
Figure yourself out. Do everything your own way. Nobody can be a better you than you are.
I learned this by paying close attention to Miles Davis. He once said: “It took me years to play like myself.”
Years to play like myself… how powerful is that?
It will take years for you to find your voice, to find your path and once you do you will be “un-compatible-with”.
Nobody in the world is better at being Joe Rogan than Joe Rogan is and now everyone is trying. Nobody in the world is better at being Rick Rubin than Rick Rubin is.
Everyone you look up to who is worthy of adulation has actually figured this out.
It took a long time, but once they figured out how to play like themselves, it was over… because nobody could compete.
Once you get this powerful secret right, you’ll get wealthy sooner than you’ve ever thought.
Zoomed in your life is a tragedy, zoomed out it’s a comedy
Zoomed-in life might be moving too slowly but if you zoom out you’ll realize you’ve actually made quite a lot of progress.
Zoomed in you might be angry at your partner for something they did, zoom out and you realize just how much you actually love them and how big of an impact they’ve had on you.
Learn to adjust your lens as life progresses, it’s a phenomenal exercise to keep yourself in check.
Speaking of checks…
Move one piece at a time, don’t try to jump steps
Many of you live with this idea that you know exactly what needs to happen and success is a linear journey from where you are… hilarious!
Not only is it arrogant, but it’s a terrible strategy thinking you have it all figured out.
It’s like you would sit at a chess match and announce all the moves you plan to make ahead of the game.
It takes one different move from your adversary and your entire string of moves becomes irrelevant.
That’s why smart people play chess and they play life like it’s a chess game. You move one piece and see what life does… how did life respond to your move?
Along the way, you keep your eye on the board of life and make adjustments to your strategy as life moves on its turn.
As with everything in life, the more you play the better you are at the game, which is why they say: Freedom is on the other side of discipline!
You no longer fight with others, you are now focused on your shit!
Have you ever seen anyone happy with their lives start a fight? Of course, you haven’t.
Angry, poor, and miserable people start fights as a way to deal with whatever horrible thing is happening in their lives.
The moment you start to prosper, the moment you focus on growth, you realize your energy is better spent elsewhere. People are energy vampires.
They think the only way to get rid of the smell of shit is to rub it onto you. So let them keep it, you don’t want anything to do with it.
As you’re reading this, you immediately think of someone who does this, who just wants to argue instead of actually dealing with their problems.
Big goals take time, brace yourself for it will be a long journey
Whatever small goal you have in life right now, if you’re obsessed with it you will inevitably attain it.
And then you’re faced with something I am dealing with right now also: Do I stay here or do I go for some bigger goal?!
If you love the game you will set bigger and bigger goals for yourself; for you will eventually find purpose in growth.
The realization happens when it becomes clear just how big some goals are:
Even though I started from 0, for me, getting to my first million (in earnings) was a lot easier than getting to $570 thousand in net worth proved to be.
You can get to 1 million in earnings with just a small team that shares your hunger and brute force hard work, but net worth requires more complex mechanics.
This puts into perspective my eventual goal of getting to a billion. There are only 2640 billionaires in the world, out of 8 billion people.
That’s why most of them look like Warren Buffett or Soros. It takes time for all the compounding to work. Very few of them get to a billy in their 30s.
Until next time!
#alphalife
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